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Cindy C. – Lawrenceville, NJ

Life is not about the steps you’ve taken, or the places you’ve been, it’s about the footprints you leave behind. My name is Cindy AKA @MyelomaTeacher and I hope the digital footprints I leave behind help a future generation of myeloma warriors become empowered patients.

I have grown tremendously as a person since my myeloma diagnosis. Prior to learning I had myeloma I was an uneducated/uninvolved patient who blindly followed doctor’s orders. I didn’t ask questions, research my conditions or seek second opinions. Today I am an empowered partner and an active participant in my healthcare. I attribute social media and the IMF as being major impetuses for my metamorphosis. I learned through online patient communities like SmartPatients, patient blogs, Facebook, teleconferences/webinars such as the IMF’s Living Well with Myeloma Series and Twitter. I learned by attending Patient and Family Seminars, Support Group Leader Summits and ASH conferences.

I was diagnosed with myeloma after being misdiagnosed with degenerative disc disease for two years. My orthopedic doctor prescribed pain medications and countless sessions of physical therapy to help with the debilitating pain I was experiencing, but I wasn’t getting better. I was getting worse. I remember thinking “Maybe my doctor should take an x-ray” (which he never did in the two years I was seeing him), but I didn’t speak up. I didn’t trust my instincts. By the time I was diagnosed with myeloma my bones were a mess. I had several compression fractures, suffered from osteoporosis and I lost over 3 inches in height. I started treatment immediately (without asking questions), but unfortunately I stopped responding to induction therapy after 4 cycles. I proceeded to have a stem cell transplant upon my myeloma specialist’s recommendation. My transplant failed to put me into remission and 100 days post-transplant I was back in treatment.

My myeloma specialist suggested 3 options. He gave me his recommendation, but ultimately it was going to be my decision as to which path I would take. At that moment I knew I was going to be partners in my care and in order to make informed decisions I needed to educate myself and learn how to make my voice heard. I am now in l remission on continuous maintenance therapy and very active in the myeloma community.

Being an educator my entire life it is only fitting that I use my passion for teaching to share what I have learned and continue to learn about the importance of patient empowerment, available resources, advocacy and research to a new group of students –patients, caregivers, doctors and anyone who will listen. My classroom is the internet.

@MyelomaTeacher is my personal Twitter handle http://www.twitter.com/myelomateacher. I have over 2600 followers and Tweet daily.  I also occasionally tweet from the International Myeloma Foundation’s @IMFAdvocacy twitter account http://www.twitter.com/imfadvocacy. I’m the co-founder of #MMSM TweetChat and manage @MMSMChats Twitter account. I am an administrator of the Philadelphia Multiple Myeloma Networking Group’s Facebook page http://www.Facebook.com/PMMNG and website http://www.philadelphia.myeloma.org. Using Pinterest I created a series of Myeloma specific boards. http://www.pinterest.com/cynthiachmielew/ I am also a regular panelist on Myeloma CurePanel a talk show that features medical experts in conversation with a panel of patients about treatments under development. http://www.blogtalkradio.com/search?q=myeloma I hope that listening to my story others who are like I was , a bystander in my healthcare, realize the importance of becoming an empowered partner. resesrch shows that empowered patients have the best outcomes that was motivation enough for me.  As the IMF says- Knowledge is Power

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Myeloma Stories

Anna R. – Manalapan, NJ

I had a plasma cytoma removed from my spinal cord in 2001. Several years passed and multiple myeloma was diagnosed. I was given 3 to 5 years to live, and was told it was a stage MM four from a prominent Michigan oncologist. I did go on treatment of Thalidomide and dextamethisone.

Here’s the important point, 8 years later and several opinions and tests later, I’m still here to say, I have a smoldering myeloma which is also known as indolent myeloma. I was originally misdiagnosed! I haven’t had any bone breakage nor symptoms, with the exception of lesions, and have been treatment free. I’m very blessed! I attended a marvelous support group where I learned so much and still do. There are so many types of multiple myeloma and many treatments.

The International Myeloma Foundation is a wonderful source of knowledge and resources.

Get informed, get 2 and even more opinions, and join a support group. Know what tests are available and who the myeloma experts are! I’m considering getting my stem cells harvested for future use. Read other people’s stories and be your own advocate!

– Anna

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Paula R. – New Jersey

My own journey with Myeloma began in Aug. 1999, when I was diagnosed with a solitary plasmacytoma in my right femur prompting an immediate hip replacement. When I was told the nature of my tumor I replied, “Multiple Myeloma? Is it like Melanoma?”

I was soon to learn much more about this disease and its individualistic tendencies. Each patient faces an uphill battle of education; learning about the disease, how it may affect them, current treatment options and potential side effects.

Over my 14 year journey, I have had two stem cell transplants, eight different lines of chemotherapy and have participated in two clinical trials. Happily, I can say, I am still here living a full and productive life….with retirement now a short two years away. Back in 1999, it was not possible to allow myself to even dream I could someday retire!

In July 2005, when I realized – I have lived longer than first expected…I decided it was time to give back and to help others cope with this challenging, evolving disease. With the help of the International Multiple Myeloma Foundation, I created the Central Jersey MM Support Group. At my first meeting, I welcomed four myeloma patients into my home. Now, our group has grown to over 70 patients and caregivers, meeting monthly at the Steeplechase Cancer Center in Somerville, N.J.

It has been very rewarding for me to have the opportunity to bring together patients; especially the newly diagnosed and their loved ones, who naturally feel stunned, overwhelmed and scared, to meet other patients who have walked in their shoes. They meet patients who have experienced a wide variety of chemotherapy treatments and yet, still enjoy a high quality of life. Patients and their families are uplifted and inspired to interact with patients who have lived much longer than those dreadful mortality statistics.

Of course, having Myeloma is not for the faint of heart. Recently, I relapsed after using two of the newest FDA approved drugs for Myeloma. The evolution of new therapies for Myeloma is vital for me and other patients like me who have utilized all the current therapies. It is exciting to know patients are living longer with Myeloma, but, it also means, many more people will find themselves, like me, in the unenviable position of praying for a one more new therapy and the hope it will bring us closer to finding the elusive cure.

However, I remain positive and hopeful, accepting the responsibility to make my life one of enjoyment, fulfillment and good humor.

– Paula R.